Sumner lost one of its brightest stars this week. At the grand age of 108, Mary Brackenbury left us, departing peacefully at Edith Cavell Lifecare.
Born in 1915, this remarkable lady lived through some of the most pivotal moments in history. Having spent the majority of her years in Bedfordshire, England, she found a new home in Christchurch in her 90s, a move she made to be nearer to her beloved daughter, Sally.
A service celebrating her life was held at St. Andrew’s Anglican Church in Sumner. It wasn’t just a recollection of the years she lived, but an endearing testimony to the charm and spirit of a woman who left an indelible mark on all who had the privilege to know her.
Those who spoke fondly of Mary painted a picture of a woman who held herself with an unmistakable blend of grace and humor. The stories were many, but a recurring theme was her playful, matter-of-fact nature.
Recollections of her wit and cheekiness were shared, such as the time someone at the rest home offered her tea or coffee. Mary, with her signature twinkle, had responded, “It doesn’t really matter as it all tastes the same around here.”
And she wasn’t one to let her age go unnoticed. As the oldest parishioner, she would often jest with her fellow churchgoers. One of her most memorable lines being, “you know I’m the big cheese around here, don’t you?” It was a delightful reminder of the zest she carried for life.
Every year after her 100th birthday, Mary received a birthday card from the Queen. With her signature wit, Mary oquipped, “she never sent a present, though. Perhaps she couldn’t afford it?”
Mary’s years in Mt. Pleasant saw her living independently, embracing each day with courage and vivacity, before she chose the comforts of Edith Cavell.
Life presented Mary with a set of challenges, some more daunting than others. Facing COVID-19 twice, and experiencing a hospital stay due to a broken leg, she met each trial head-on. Through it all, Mary exhibited an admirable spirit, always expressing her gratitude.
Her journey through life was nothing short of extraordinary. A testament to her resilience, and her ability to find joy in the little things.
Mary was New Zealand’s third oldest person.
Sumner, and indeed the world, was brighter for having Mary Brackenbury in it.